I really wish that people would realize that there is literally nothing less inconsequential than how beautiful or handsome you are. The only thing you have to worry about is filling your own eyes with beautiful sights and your ears with words that inspire you and surrounding yourself with people who make you better as a person. I like to think of it this way. If people could float around as souls without bodies and everyone could see your true essence as easily as they see your body now, what would you try to make the most attractive to others? Make that the most attractive thing about you now.